January 6, 2007

• In life we all have to do things that we do not want to do or don't like to do but we still have to do.  Well yesterday I had one of those days.  Chris has not paid any rent since October.  I asked him about Rent yesterday and his newest scheme is for me to wait till they get their income tax check and he will pay everything he owes in  full.  in Nov it was please wail till december 1st. then in DEc it was wait till Jan and now it is wait till taxes.  I told him NO WAY!  He said that the Van they have is getting ready to be repoed.  well that is because they did not pay what they  agreed to Tha is not my fault. Then he was saying that he is trying to find a job.  I am sorry there ARE jobs out there it is just that he does not want to work.  Oh it will cost too much for Day care well then they should not have had the kids that they had.  We all have to pay our waythru life and it is no different for them.  And to be honest at this point I do not believe anything that Chris promises.

  Any way then he started to complain that the house was a dump.  Well it is and I told them not to come when they did heck The Crack heads were still in the house when they came down.  It was there choice to come when they did. I told him I am not trying to make money off of him just trying to make it so Dad breaks even.  He has it in his head that I have to tell him where and how I spend Dads money.  Any way he started pointing out all of the things that need to be done.  And yes there is LOTS to be done.  Again that goes back to I told him not to come when he did that things would not be ready.  I reminded him that I bought the materials for the Bathroom floor, He would not let my Contractor do it because he would have to go somewhere with the kids My contractor will not work with all those power tools around the children.  i would not alow it either the kids do not listen and they are not watched as they should be. my son said he would do it his self. Well supplies over there and the work still is not done.  Any way when he started picking at EVERYTHING that needed to be don that is when I told him he should find another place to live.  I hated to have to do it but enough is enough!

  The situation that he is in is his own doing.  Then he turns around and tries to bring up my past.  my past is my past and has nothing to do with how he has chosen to run his life. He has created this mess that he is in and why he thinks I owe his I do not know.. I wrote him a letter and did say that I have no clue what he feels I owe him and for what reason.  He and his wife chose the have the children they have.  I should not and will not support them. i told Chris I was sorry he thought I owed him something I can not give.  I reminded him that we were not making money  on them only tringto break even for Dad.

  I guess I will call the para legal that helped me do all I needed to do with the divorce to help me with this eviction.  i am just sick that this is the way it has to be.

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