March 11, 2007
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I can not believe it has been a month since I have last posted here. Things really have been crazy! My son he was staying at my Dads house had a trespass filed against me. He would not let m3e in to see the things that had to be fixed. or to remove things out of the house that belonged to my Dad. He almost had me arrested.
I have been clean from Crack Cocaine for 11 years and he even told the cop I was smoking crack she asked to search me and my car. I was so very hurt and mad when he did that. He even said that I was a better mother when I was on crack which hurt my youngest son. He was the one that was with me when I was sick.
He stole my Dads tools and tool box hat was in the house and took my mothers good set of stone ware dished a serving for 16 gone.
he accused my boyfriend of being a child molester and crazy person with guns. You see we collect guns as a hobby most of them are black powder guns which we use when we do our civil war re enacting. and all guns are locked up not out where just any one can get them. he is in the coast guard auxsillary and part of home land security. Becaue I have a baby picture of him with is butt hanging out he was about 1 1/2 years old he is claiming that I ME his mother molested him.
Well I had enought I am done paying there bills they would not let me in the house to get things that did not belong to them sooo. I called the child abuse/nglecthot line and I reported them. I explained the situation to them I even told them about the fight/argument. They ran back to Pennsyvania. after doing some work on the house.
The bed that were left the smeared poop all over them. A file cabinet they poured bbq sause in it an on it also in a bed room the smeard something all over the floor who knows what. Tooth paste all over the dinning room table. I found out who they sold the microwave to.
They left me a horrid letter saying alot of horrible things. My daughter in law wrote that a mother should take care of her children no matter what age they are and nomatter weather they have a job or not. This son is 30 years old with 5 children I owe them nothing!
Ultimately I think that we are going to loose the house. I am going to let it go back to the finance company because I just can not afford to pay my mortgage and my fathers. He got him self in this mess and if he looses the house that is because of what he did. I did what I could for the last 8 months and I just can not do no more.
I might have someone who may be interested in the place for the land alone because god only knows that the place is a dump. it is a trailer and I think that the best thing to do is just take the peice of what ever off and put something new on the property.
Any way I have been scrambling the last we3ek to get all that I can out of the house before I go to the mortage company most of the stuff that is left is trash excpecially since my son and his wife did what they did.
They even st9omped on a rose bush that was the last one I gave to my mother just to hurt me. I would go and wrap it so it would not freeze when it got cold or be daaged by frost. That really did not work for them I was able to save it for the most part and I dug it up and put it at my house and it is now doing just find. Mom likes living here.
I will blog again as soon as I can just hard to sit and do all that I need to do with my back and all I will get in to the back issues with you all later. HUGS to all. And I do want to take this time to thank all my friends in Xanga land for allof your support.
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Enough is enough it's time you put your foot down and do for yourself, your son is old enough to take care of his own problem's though he showed very childish actions. If you have to let the trailer go don't feel bad about it you did your best and you should feel good about that. I hope all works ouit for you and your son's wife is very wrong...parent's should not look out for their kid's expensives once their grown. I hope she continues to feel that way because she will have 5 children she can raise until their very old. {{hugs}}
Wow you have been going thru so much! Been reading up. Well your son needs to grow up and get a life of his own, with out his mother paying his bills, and with out his daughter in law thinking, you should pay her cable. He has no clue how good he had it. He also better have a clue that he spoiled any chance of coming back to you later for help. What a bad child he has become with growing up and getting his own family. When we do that, it is time we take responsiblility for ourselves and our actions and our families. I am so sorry your son has proven to be so useless. Believe me it is of no fault of yours. We all have choices and he made his. Good to see you again. Hugs to you as well. And extra hugs for all you have had to deal with. Take good care of you! Do you hear anymore of Lawson? How he is doing? Still really miss Wickie! Have a great day and a wonderful tomorrow ! ! ! Much love and many hugs! ! ! Sleep witht he angels and wake up fully rested and ready for a brand new day ! ! ! ! Oh beautiful site! ! ! !
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